MSgt Thomas Poe
December 19, 1937 ~ October 10, 2026
Born in:
Inverness, MS
Resided in:
San Antonio, TX
A Life of Faith, Service, Love, and Lasting Legacy
Thomas Poe was born on December 19, 1937, in Inverness, Mississippi, to the late Robert and Annie Windom Poe. He passed away on October 10, 2026, at the age of 88.
Raised in Rockford, Illinois, Thomas graduated from Washington High School. He was the tenth of twelve children and the youngest son.
Thomas proudly served his country in the United States Army for 20 years, from December 1958 to December 1978, retiring with the distinguished rank of Master Sergeant (E-8). During his military career, he served as a Neuropsychiatric Specialist in the Army Medical Department and received two Army Commendation Medals in recognition of his exceptional service and leadership.
As his distinguished military career drew to a close, Thomas began another meaningful chapter of his life. On November 4, 1978, he married his beloved wife, Gracie Griffin. Thomas entered the marriage with two daughters, Janet and Lois, and Gracie entered the marriage with two daughters, Gerri and Gezti. Although the daughters did not all live together under one roof, Thomas and Gracie lovingly brought their families together and shared nearly 48 years of marriage.
Faith was an important foundation of their journey together. Recognizing the many blessings in their lives, Thomas and Gracie joined Bethel AME Church, where they became part of a loving spiritual family for more than 30 years. Thomas faithfully served in the Greeters Ministry, the Reading Ministry, and as a Steward, later being honored with the title of Steward Emeritus. He shared his welcoming spirit, generosity, and dedication to others, remaining devoted to serving his church family until his declining health no longer allowed him to do so. His unwavering faith and commitment to service reflected his lifelong love for people and his heart for giving back.
Following his military retirement, Thomas continued to pursue his passion for learning and personal growth. Driven by an unquenchable thirst for knowledge, he returned to school and earned his Bachelor of Applied Arts and Sciences degree from Southwest Texas State University (now Texas State University). His commitment to education reflected his belief that learning was a lifelong journey.
Thomas carried that same dedication into a diverse and accomplished civilian career. His love for music and natural gift for communication led him to radio broadcasting, where he served as a disc jockey and program director at KAPE radio. He later held executive leadership positions in materials management with the City of Houston, Methodist Hospital System, Santa Rosa, and CHRISTUS Hospital, where he retired. His desire to remain active and give back continued through his work as a substitute teacher with North East Independent School District. Thomas was also an author.
Known for his outgoing personality, generous heart, and ability to never meet a stranger, Thomas brought joy wherever he went. He loved music, especially jazz, dancing, and sports. From playing football during his military years and enjoying racquetball to playing golf later in life, he embraced every season with enthusiasm. He also found great fulfillment in mentoring and encouraging young men, sharing his wisdom and inspiring others to reach their potential.
Above all, Thomas was a loving husband, devoted father, proud grandfather and great-grandfather, and cherished friend. His grandchildren affectionately called him “Papa Tom.”
Thomas leaves to cherish his memory his beloved wife, Gracie Poe; four daughters, Janet (Javier), Lois (David III), Gerri (Carl), and Gezti; seven grandchildren, Janel (Kyle), Gabriela, Dominique, David IV, Jonathan, Antréshawn, and Jonté (Andy); and eight great-grandchildren, Aaliyah, Oliver, Aiden, Breylin, Eli, Kaylani, Jonté II, and Aria.
He is also survived by his sisters, Emma and Pearline Poe, along with numerous nieces, nephews, extended family members, and dear friends.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Robert and Annie Windom Poe; sisters, Marie (Chandler), Bobbie, Mary (Maryland), Carlean, Pauline, and Annie B. (Lattimore); and brothers, Matthew (May Helen), John (Tina), and Robert Sr. (Algurtia).
Thomas Poe lived a life defined by his faith in God, service, generosity, and love. His legacy extends far beyond his military honors and professional accomplishments. It lives in the family he cherished, the young men he mentored, the friendships he nurtured, and the countless lives he touched.
His laughter, wisdom, welcoming spirit, and unwavering love will forever remain in the hearts of those blessed to know him.
Rest in peace, Papa Tom. Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure, and your legacy will live on for generations to come.
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Services
Visitation: Friday, October 23, 2026 5:00 pm
F.E. Lewis Memorial Chapel
811 So. W.W. White Road
San Antonio, TX
Funeral Service: Saturday, October 24, 2026 11:00 am
Cemetery: Monday, November 2, 2026 10:15 am
Room: Shelter #2
Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery
1520 Harry Wurzbach Rd.
San Antonio, TX




Tom was a father and a great friend. I met him through Gracie inviting me to come buy and see and buy some of here work at their beautiful home. I enjoyed going by to visit and listening to jazz with both of them. I am honored to have both Gracie and Tom in my life. I work with both of them at Bethel AME San Antonio. Rest well Tom you are going to be missed in so many aspects of the community. Love and Peace
Renaldo Pierce
I never imagined doing life without you! 🥹
Thank you for being an amazing father. You were there for me for the good, the bad and the ugly! You was my number one fan and my biggest supporter!!! The words of wisdom you instilled into me and your grandchildren will continue forever.
I love you and miss you always!!!
Your #1 brat Janet
Que Dios lo lleve a descansar…amén amén y amén 🙌🏿 🙏🏿
Your neice,
Kimberly Purifoy
From the time I was young, he had a way of making the world feel safer and brighter. Whether it was just a phone call or he was showing up when I needed advice, making me laugh during hard moments, or simply teaching me how to stand tall with integrity and kindness, he led by example. He didn’t need a cape or a title to be extraordinary-his strength showed up in his patience, his generosity, and the way he always made room for the people he loved. My Love, my uncle.💞 Tanya Hall