Mr. Farrar Gilmore Patterson, age 68 of San Antonio, Texas was born April 11, 1950 to Mr. William Troy Patterson, Jr., and Ms. Henrietta Alice Farrar Patterson, in Raleigh, North Carolina, Wake County. He was the second child born to this union.
Farrar “Gilmore” was a graduate of Chantam High School, Siler City, NC, Class of 1968. In 1971 he entered the United States Air Force and retired as a Master Sergeant in 1995 after twenty-four years of honorable service as an Air Traffic Controller. He served tours in Juneau, AK, Okinawa, Japan, and Osan, Korea. His decorations included AF Commendation Medal, AF Overseas Long Tour Ribbon, AF Outstanding Unit Award, and Meritorious Service Medal.
Farrar enjoyed being around family and friends, sharing his life’s experiences with those he met. He enjoyed golfing and a good game of bid whist. He also had a love of music and sports (especially the Carolina Panthers). He traveled extensively and had a passion for cooking and cruising.
Farrar was a dedicated member of the Achievers of San Antonio (a nonprofit organization). He enjoyed feeding the less fortunate families during the holidays and donating to those in need. Farrar loved his family. He continually boosted about his grandchildren and possessed an unparalleled desire to spend time with them.
Farrar was preceded in death by his mother, Henrietta; father William; step father James Russell and his son Farrar Gilmore Patterson II.
He is survived by his devoted wife of twenty years, Lawonda Ghant Patterson of San Antonio, TX ,and his six children: Cyntria (Will), Josiah (Yamelis), Felicia, Ashley (Brandon), Melanie and Taylor (Jeff). Ten grandchildren: Amber, LaDarrius, Jessica, Jerin, Tyler, Lylah, Noah, William (Deuce), MyKai and Aubree. Two Greatgrandchildren: Peyton and Irie. Three Godchildren: Sommer Barnes, Erin Brown, and Jasmine Adams. His brother, William (Hélène) of Las Vegas, NV. His Aunt, Hannah Patterson of Raleigh, NC; and his many nieces, nephews, and cousins of the Alston, Emerson ,Farrar, Marsh, and Patterson families.
He leaves to cherish his memory special friends Norman and Brenda Matthews of Magnolia, DE; Al Bailey and Veronica Quarles of Meridian, MS; Charlie and Gloria Adams of Panama City, FL. His extended family, The Browns of Biloxi, MS; and a host of loving friends around the country.





Daddy, I Miss you so much… It does not seem real.. We talked everyday.. I love you!!
Cyntria, William, and Deuce
The Patterson Family has our sincere condolences on the loss of your love one. Rest in Heaven Farrar.
The Browns of Biloxi, Mississippi
My heart is broken… I love you!!
Your Daughter Cyntria
A Blooming Blues was ordered on January 7, 2019
For all memories from our School days at Chatham High I will always remember you as a valued friend and athlete
Thank youâ¤ï¸
We share in this time of grief but also share in the love and memories of Farrar.
As a cousin And classmate I will miss the Days we spend on my porch just talking.. you wii be missed in N.C. By friends,family.
Cousin Gilmore…you were one of my favorite cousins and you will forever be in my heart… we love you and will truly miss you… love Chanda and The Nettles Family â¤ï¸ðŸ™ðŸ½
A Memory Lane was sent on January 8, 2019
You were the best Godfather and friend. Love Always.
Milt/Malissa Thompkins
I will certainly miss my friend as he was a good Bid Whist player and a great conversationalist.Â
Farrar you will always be in my Heart. I still can’t believe you are gone. I Love you and will Miss you. Rest in heaven my friend. Sharon
We’re going to miss you Farrar… 😢
Best Brother-In-Law a man can ask for! I already miss our conversations while sitting in the living room watching the same western movies you’ve seen over and over again! I Love you and I’m gonna make sure I keep Josiah on track! I won’t let you down! R.I.P
Cyntria you are in my prayers. I love you cousin and remember your Dad is with you each and every day. Keep the legacy going of being a great daughter.
I still remember the first time I met Uncle Gilmore in Las Vegas. He had never met my kids, but brought them both Christmas gifts that were absolutely perfect! I think his great-nephew Cameron wore those Batman pajamas for three years, even when he had completely outgrown them! I’m sure that’s just one of a million examples of the wonderful and loving man that he was, but it’s stuck with me forever. Sending all my love and prayers to my dad Bill Patterson & the entire Family during this difficult time â¤ï¸â¤ï¸â¤ï¸